Masseria Calderisi, Puglia
A three day story
Some weddings last a few hours. Others unfold slowly, over days, and leave you with something much deeper. Alix and Ben chose the second kind. I followed them for three days, filming everything as it happened, without staging or forcing anything. Just letting the moments build naturally, and letting people be themselves.
Day 1
Pizza by the pool and traditional music
The first day felt easy, almost like everyone was gently stepping into the experience. Pool, pizza, and a traditional Salento band playing live. That kind of music immediately changes the atmosphere. People loosen up, start moving, start laughing together. It is one of my favourite parts to film. There is no pressure yet, no expectations. Just people arriving, connecting, being present.
Day 2
Speeches at sunset and a seaside barbecue
The second day shifted into something more intimate. During the cocktail hour on the terrace, Alix and Ben created a dedicated moment just for speeches. Not something squeezed in between courses, but a proper space where everyone could really speak and be heard. Friends and family shared stories, thoughts, emotions. Later, we moved to Calderisi Mare for a barbecue by the sea. Warm light, a bit of wind, that feeling you cannot really design, it just happens.
Day 3
The wedding daY
The third day was the core of it all. The ceremony, then dinner in the main courtyard of the masseria, with everyone gathered around long tables. A simple, beautiful atmosphere.
After that, the energy shifted again. The party took place under a Moroccan tent, with a live band and a completely different vibe. More movement, more rhythm, more freedom.
And then the afterparty in the old olive mill, this time with a DJ set. Darker, louder, more instinctive. A different kind of energy to close everything.
The film
When I work on weddings like this, I am not trying to simply show what happened in order. I am more interested in building an emotional flow. Even if speeches are usually the backbone of my films, for this short film I leaned more on the vows from the ceremony. They felt more direct, more personal, and they naturally held everything together. From there, I mixed moments from all three days, moving back and forth in time, but always keeping a clear emotional direction.
Three days. One story.